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True beauty does not emerges from similarity, but from complementarity

In the realm of relationships, true beauty does not emerges from similarity, but from complementarity.

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In this captivating image, we encounter two distinct creatures: a tortoise and butterflies.

The former, a cold-blooded reptile, finds its habitat on both land and in water. The latter, an arthropod, gracefully graces both terrestrial and aerial realms.

At first glance, it's evident that these two beings share little in common, not even belonging to the same taxonomic order. Furthermore, their aesthetics diverge dramatically, with the butterflies adorned in vibrant hues, while the tortoise maintains a more subdued, colorless exterior.

Yet, within this apparent disparity, a beautiful relationship unfolds.

On one hand, the butterflies derive sustenance from the mineral salts that accumulate on the tortoise's scales. On the other, the tortoise enjoys a gentle cleaning courtesy of its fluttering companions.

In seeking relationships, we often gravitate toward those who mirror our own attributes. However, the most flourishing bonds often arise when individuals complement each other. Whether it's an extrovert harmonizing with an introvert, a serene soul paired with a spirited counterpart, or a rational thinker intertwined with an emotionally attuned partner.

Sigmund Freud referred to the inclination of seeing ourselves in others as 'secondary narcissism.' It's the notion that we're drawn to what reminds us of ourselves in others.

This image serves as a poignant reminder that the most beautiful relationships can be more surprising than anticipated.

Embrace the differences, and extend acceptance to the other.

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True beauty does not emerges from similarity, but from complementarity

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